The greatest barrier to success is "you, me, and WE."
Success means different things to different people, however most would agree that being happy, healthy, and loved are key elements of success; if not the essential requirements for enjoying success.
Living life with a sense of passion, purpose, balance, and resolve are ways in which we can be accountable to ourselves and to all of the great people that come into and out of our life. Perhaps the single biggest contributor to personal accountability and success is trust. "Are we viewed by others as trusted individuals? Can we put our faith and trust into other people?"
These questions come up more frequently than one might imagine, even if they are inquired and reconciled within our subconscious. The foundation of success, then, is intimately entwined with how we value, understand, manage, and foster trust.
Trust is not only something we put into others. The act of trusting is but one dimension of this life-essential element. Trust is what others put into us and what we also put into ourselves. Trust is at a minimum a two way street. But more often than not, trust is a six-lane highway, international airport, racetrack, space mission, rollercoaster, and off-road excursion on an ATV. Trust is a wild ride of asymmetrical inputs, perceptions, data, feelings, opinions, facts, and behaviors.
Trust is is inherent in every human engagement and interaction. While measures of success are subjective, there is no doubt that happiness is a goal for many people.The more we understand and sense just how omnipresent trust is in our life, the more we can ensure we foster trust relationships and interactions in ways that support our true self and individual happiness.
Mark Coleman is the author of “Time to Trust: Mobilizing Humanity for a Sustainable Future” and “The Sustainability Generation: The Politics of Change and Why Personal Accountability is Essential NOW!” Mr. Coleman is President of Convergence Mitigation Management (CMM), a management consultancy focused in the areas of sustainability, risk, and innovation. Mr. Coleman resides in the Finger Lakes region of New York with his wife Aileen and two boys, Owen and Neal.
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